Jay did something kinda nice (embarrassing, but nice nonetheless) for me on Thursday.
I went out with a bunch of my friends on the 18th for iftar. We decided to go to TGI Friday’s in Landmark, which is a shopping center that’s pretty close to the college.
Nothing out of the ordinary happened at first. We met up at Friday’s, ordered food, chatted, teased and took pictures. (They’re up on Facebook). As is often expected when you’re in a place like Friday’s (or Applebee’s or Chili’s) it was someone’s birthday and the waiters were singing and clapping like it was the most amazing thing in the world. (I wonder if they get paid extra for celebrating some random customer’s birthday…I hope they do. It’s gotta be weird singing and clapping for someone you don’t even know and generally acting like you give a damn when I’m pretty sure you’d rather be anywhere else but there).
There was a lot going on, so I don’t really know what happened in sequence…but some time after the waiters set down the cake in front of Random Birthday Dude and left, Jay asked me when my Islamic birthday was. (I had mentioned to him a while before…but his memory’s nothing short of abysmal). Without really thinking I told him I was born during Ramadan, I just wasn’t sure of the day. (After I looked it up I can say with certainty that my Islamic birthday is the 22nd of Ramadan 1406. Makes me feel younger just lookin’ at it). Anyways, I didn’t think much of the question—-if anything it was a way to make conversation.
We snapped more pictures and then Jay got up and went outside. He has trouble staying in one place for long, so I figured he went out to get some air and stretch his legs. He wasn’t gone for long, he came back and scootched back into his place. (He was sitting next to me, I was between him and Faisal on the table). He looked at me and said, “So, yeah, you said your birthday’s in Ramadan, right?”
That alone should have warned me that he was up to something, since it’s rare that he ever repeats a topic of conversation without meaning to make something of it. Not to say I didn’t have an inkling of suspicion, but I didn’t really pay attention. I looked at him and said, “Yeah, it is, but why?” He kept glancing up instead of looking at me and said, “Oh, wait, you’ll see”.
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